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Why Foreign Women Focus Less on Appearance

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Reliability and commitment matter more to foreign women. | Photo by Radu Florin on Pexels

Good looks aren’t as big of a deal as you might think when it comes to the dating game. With the constant bombardment from the media and advertisers of how movie star good looks somehow equals being happier or more successful, you’d be forgiven for feeling insecure. The good news is that in the international dating game, foreign women aren’t as focused on your physical appearance as you might think.

Don’t get it wrong, good looks are an advantage. If you look like a long-lost identical twin to Tom Cruise, chances are you’d have more women looking to go out with you. A good outward appearance also gives the impression that somehow you are more trustworthy than others, even if that oftentimes isn't the case.

Unfortunately, as you will or have already realized, looks are only good in the beginning. They’re good when you want to get a date, but are rendered practically useless once deep into a relationship. In the case of many foreign women, this rings particularly true. Does this mean you shouldn’t try looking the best that you possibly can? Of course not.

You still can’t underestimate the importance of physical attraction. Like all other creatures on this earth, you will need to attract a mate somehow, and in most cases, it’s by looking as attractive as you can possibly be. Just check out any online dating site. Looking good almost guarantees more clicks and views.

But that’s only the beginning, and who you are and what you do will factor in as the relationship continues. So what could be more important than physical attraction in a relationship?

Reliability and security.

When getting a foreign woman to consider you as a potential life partner, you have to convince her that a future with you means a better life for her. This can happen for different reasons. The first is that she may be looking for financial stability.

If your prospective woman is from a country with poverty issues, she may be looking for a better financial situation. It is important to be able to differentiate this from a woman who is purely a gold digger. Men from western countries or developed ones in general are seen as financially stable or wealthy, thus being an immediate attraction for women in developing countries.

Women from traditional and conservative cultures in Asia, Eastern Europe, or Latin America view men as providers. The better you are as a provider, the better a woman’s outlook on raising a family and living comfortably becomes. If you fit the bill, finding a foreign girlfriend should be easy.

The reality is that whether you like it or not, money and resources will govern much of the dynamics of your family life and relationship with your partner. This is why it’s important to ensure that your financial health is stable and secure.

If your date is from a very family-oriented culture like in China, your looks don't matter as much as what else you bring to the table. Good looks only matter on a superficial level in society, but when it comes to family, they won’t leave your daughter’s future in the hands of just any guy on the street.

Ask yourself, can I contribute to the better overall well-being of myself and my future family?

She wants your commitment.

The thing about foreign women is that when they love you, they love you unconditionally. When they choose you, they put their heart and soul on the line. It’s not as easy as it sounds, considering that you can potentially leave them anytime and go back to your home country.

Because these ladies often come from traditional and conservative cultures, they believe that once they get married, they have to stick to their husbands for life. This is why many foreign women refuse to divorce their husbands even if they’re in an abusive and unhappy relationship. Getting a divorce can be seen as shameful for their families.

When you enter into a serious relationship with a foreign woman, make sure that you love her enough to commit to her for a lifetime.

So should I not care about my physical appearance?

Of course you should. Remember, to date a woman, you must first deal with the first stage, which is physical attraction. Just how important is physical attraction for a woman? You can’t just look good for the sake of looking good. It doesn’t work like that. You look as good as you need to so that you can show the qualities mentioned above - reliability and commitment.

The first step is to be on point with your grooming and fashion. You want to dress relaxed, but commanding of respect. In this case, a decent buttoned up shirt, clean shoes, and perhaps a nice jacket ought to do the trick. Looking rough can give a woman the impression that you’re out of work or close to it.

You might be concerned that you aren’t particularly handsome. That’s reality, not everyone is born advantaged. But that’s good news for you. Foreign women don’t need your looks. They will be with you for the sum of your being, not just your personal appearance. It simply means you have to make up for it in other areas of your life. Be healthier, be fit. Be a better professional or businessperson.

The more important things in life.

If you’re concerned that you can’t attract foreign women because you don’t possess naturally good looks, you might want to pay more attention. Looks will fade over time. Women know this.

At the end of the day, you have to make the best of the cards you’re dealt with. Just know that if you fancy yourself a decent, hardworking man with a fine personality and a smidgen of humor, you can catch the eye of beautiful foreign women in any country you choose to visit. Relationships are like a marathon. You need to have the tools to start the race, but then, more than anything, you need the tools and endurance to finish one.

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